YOUR PAST

In daily activities, while you may no activities or stay alone at home, maybe you suddenly remember someone who has ever graced your life or remember someone who ever meant so much to you. Say that your ex-lover, your old friend, your parents or anyone who has ever stopped in your heart. You are reminded of your past with all the sweetest thing you've ever experienced. With all your memories, you wish  to see and want to talk and share with them again. Unfortunately you do not know either where they are today, and no longer possible to gather such as in the past.

Now, all of memories that stay only a mere memory and that may still remaining is when you remember the last moments will part with them. There are migrated to the other country, there are going to other town for school, there are stay at hometown untill now and much more. It's been five, ten, fifteen and even tens of years you never see them again, and the grains of the memory still remains. When this is not unlikely that you feel very sad, labil,  even if you thought of the last sweetest and most beautiful things that you experience, it might you’re crying now.

If you are currently experiencing it now, where you miss all the people who gave you a sweet memories or  even one "ahead" of the Creator, how you can react so as not to drown in the "emotions" are more in?
Open up your memory albums, enjoy your all nostalgic songs and pray for them. Instantly you will feel energized, your soul will be calm, everyday you will always be beautiful, and consider them as part of the life journey full of waves and meanders.

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HOW FAR BLOGGING CAN CHANGE YOURSELF?

You can remember the early days of blogging? Any idea who wants to be poured at times to be edited several times, changing the titles of postings several times or even to want to upset and crying when a posting appeared broken or not performing as we expected. And you may also have changed the template, but forgot to back up the old template, so consequently shattered blog. But with determination and the principle of relentless, now it's over, isn't?

Currently blogging world has been a distinct trend in the Internet world with a variety of purposes such as writing on various topics such as Motivation words, job and career, online business, business information, internet business ideas, marketing, seo tester, seo tools, google adsense, online business opportunities,  free blog submition, life and style, blog promotion, or monetize blog also, where the blog  uses to make money from the internet. In blogging, what would be poured not only for their own consumption, but will be offered to millions of readers around the world for free and with sincere intentions. One of the most beautiful thing about blogging is that everyone can each "stealing knowledge" and greeted each other even though not face to face.

The extent to which blogging bring about a change in yourself? With the "normal duties" makes posting on the blog, of course, we will always try to find the info or even to fantasize and looking for new ideas for presentation to the reader. With the track and read the info, of course, our knowledge will be vast and growing. When the info or the ideas we get, and we write to the blog with a series of his own words, then writing talents are also increasing sharply. When we are faced with the editing problem while the access is sometimes a long time, so we also tested the patience. When we get good requests that fellow bloggers via chat, shoutmix or comments, we will certainly come back with a smile even give "click" value as a sign of gratitude for their visit. In this case the hospitality we have also increased, because we also will always come and give smile to your blog friends as ramahtamah visit.

if we return to the posting title above how far blogging can change yourself? So blogging has been able to modify and improve the talent, knowledge, patience and friendliness of its users.

THIS IS THE BEST WAY

Love is a gift! Love is present not because of forced or imposed, and will be came to anyone and do not see the conditions, circumstances, nature, or character of someone. Every human be awarded this sweet feeling. Many love stories that we can see around us even our own love experience with all the sweet memories and maybe also all  grief. Overall the story was not uncommon to take a deep emotion for us. Do you remember Romeo and Juliet, Anthony and Cleopatra, Samson and Delilah, the Titanic, or perhaps you are currently hearing the song Endless Love? The story was full of dynamism isn't it? Fun, sad, happy, or make you emotional aren't you?

One of the most painful story of a journey of love is when you must part with your beloved. I do not know it because he died, or you and your beloved forced apart by your parents, or maybe because your lover betrayed you. If the  2 and 3 option happen to you, you try to imagine. it's so sad, isn't it? Day after day passed with a very deep sadness and even tears that fall can not be counted anymore. All the last beautiful memories  you can not forget. 1 month, 2 months, 3 months, all the days you spent with grief, emotional, anger and broken hearts. As if no more people who can replace your former lover.

But ... when the mood has changed and you've survived from all your hard times, even now you've got someone else to replace your lost lover, and even you have been married and had son and daughter. So, what you get with your last and your old story? Apparently the old story that must be ended with all the painful stories is the best way for you. Why? Because it can be when you're married to your former lover it is not impossible things to make you unhappy and it is not impossible you are actually experiencing the things that always troubling in your life. But on the other hand if this turns out when you're not happy with other people, it's also the best way for you. Receive and pray for this option! Be sure that it is the best way in your choice. Of course, with prayer, spirit, desire to change, everything will be sunny and beautiful back in time.

TODAY IS A SPECIAL DAY, ISN'T ?

In sidelines of a variety of daily activities, whether it's business office, business, work, school to the family business, we are never separated from the atmosphere happiness, sadness, anger, resentment, confusion, etc.. Today may feel very happy, but tomorrow or later suddenly felt sad and miserable. Each person would not have been able to escape from this condition. No one who constantly felt happy or sad in his life is not it?

In The name of life, not everyone is able to survive or through it. Many people even take suicide action when they have a burden that not detained longer. Many are also finding shortcuts and versatile instant for all forms of bitterness of  life that is no longer possible to pass. To return to the starting position is very difficult, though certainly not impossible. A dilemma of the elusive life. Day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year, all full of twists and turns. This is a meaning to life. When already in a hardship situation, many people will become unstable, confused, stressed, not excited, even looking for a shortcut.

However, we must realize as people who have given the Creator  mind and strength to survive, humans must have realized that life in the world is something that absolutely lived. Whatever and however the content of life, human beings are and should be ready to fight in it. Isn't that our current age has proven that we can survive ?
In order that Day after day can we pass, let us make that every day is  a Special though we've been through with scenes that do not make sense.
So, Today is a special day, isn’t?

TEACHER BETTER HAVE A PERSONAL BLOG

In this time world of bloging have very trend among society of Indonesia. As far as we know the function of blog for someone is very much and important. One of is that bloging will race creativity of blogger itself, and will be able to express all idea exist in its brain. Not surprise, in this time many training of  bloging in many schools especially for SMA ( Senior haigh school ) students. But if in seeing, the growth bloging is not consistence. Its meaning after they are finishing training hence its it drop behind off hand without there is no update, there’s no simple technique decorate and there is no promotion of blog.

One of the its cause is there is no excitement and spirit or support to student from their teacher. The spirit of blogging especially for students actually comes from their teacher. It means, all the teacher better have an own blog to give support and a blogging spirit for their students. To give the solution in this purpose, I think this is the right time that the rules for a teacher candidat or for requesting a new teacher must include one rule namely "have a personal blog". With this rule, if they are be a teacher, they will be able to train their students and give a  support and spirit for students with their personal blog. Beside that, advantages if teacher has a personal blog, they can:

1. Give home work to the students by using their blog and all students can send answers to teacher's e-mail that attach in teacher's blog.
2. Give clarification or answer about the home work from their blog.
3. Give quiz or exercises in their blog and post the solution or answer in their blog
   
4. Make interactive about student problem in school, learning process till answer about all via chatting facility in their blog.
5. If several students absent or sick and they cannot join the class today, the can visit and read about last subject in teacher's blog.

IS THIS THE RIGHT TIME TO FIND A NEW JOB?

In our life, we will never released from what we call bored. A Boredom can  come  suddenly whenever and anytime. We can take one example, when we work as a daily activity, a boredom often come on us even stay on us for along time. We have tried to begone and make some new tricks, but it can’t to dissipate it. In working  which it is to yield money and as a media to improve career training ourselves, the attendance of boredom is one compromising matter  even fearful. Why? Because this creature will decrease our career decrease our financial, even it results laziness and we cannot increase career and we always assume all the job is a burden.

The signs that someone  has entered in this trap, we can know from  common signs below such us : feel so lazy when wake up in the morning, the spirit of life will decrease and loss slowly, we cannot reach every job target, feel like the other person in office, we always have a negative thinking, all friends' idea or suggests look like  a wind, and all the boss' govern is something weighing against.

What should we do? As I say in the first paragraph above, the first way is try to maintain job and make variations how to handle the job in workplace. this matter to try to out for remain to eksis in work. But, although we’ve tried  with many methods and tricks, this way cannot to pull socks up and the boredom always haunting ourselves. If this situation runs continue, I think This the right time to make a decision to improve your career especially your financial. This is a final decision than staying in a bad condition. This is the right time to change over, and please take this decision before age pursue You. Free your self rigth now and start to find a new job/career as soon as possible in a situation which make you feel so happy and feel esteemed and the job is suitable  with your ability and talent.

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IS HOME SCHOOLING SUITABLE FOR YOUR CHILDREN?

Homeschooling education method is  expostulated by many societies in this time, as an alternative in education especially education for children. As far as we know, many methods to improve our children ability to welcome globalization and to prepare themselves to reach the future. One method to prepare themselves is home schooling. Below I try to explain the meaning of homeschooling and all of the advantages and negatives.

Commonly  home schooling is one of education method where parents are responsible to their children education by using house as a school or class room. In this case, parents directly involve in education process. But sometime  many parents owe  teachers to teach their children in this learning method. For the first time, this home schooling system was increase in USA and several developed countries in the world. And then it grows in all countries recently, include Indonesia.  In Indonesia, this  home schooling system has been arranged according to the law, and every student in home schooling can take National Test together with student in formal  school. Goverment doesn’t manage the learning process, but the result of this is confessed same with normal school.

Home schooling, advantages and negatives
Advantage:

1. Free to choose the own schedule. Many parents want their children learn in the morning, afternoon or evening. So, home schooling can accommodate the time.
2. The subject/material more variables. Student can focus in one subject they like and can practice it in anytime at home
3. We can know the children activities every day. This is one  great advantage because parents know children activites like learning process and their attitude.
4. Learning method full of concentration, concept and aplicatif.
5. Home schooling is suitable to  protect  in learning process, especially for disabled people, and avoid social problem like fight, bullying,drug and worthless.

Negative:

1. Many pressures. Because every person who teach in this home schooling has different method, so the pressure can arise if parents compare their method with the others.
2. Parents must work with an extra time and energy. From preparing children material,arrange the house until manage all family member.
3. Children who take home schooling will feel less associate with  others, because they learn private and  no group or team like formal school.
4. The school fee is more expensive than formal school.
5. There is no competition, so children can’t compare their ability with other children.

So, from explain above with advantage and negative in home schooling, is this home schooling will be a suitable or an alternative school for your children education?

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SAVE BEAUTY OF INDONESIA

Sunday, 8 March 2009 for awhile I leave many activities especially in blogging such as blog walking, posting, commenting, submit to search engine and learning seo. 

Because We have to go enjoying holiday to one of Indonesia’s favorite place, samosir island and lake toba. At 7.00 in the morning, we leave medan city and passing Lubuk Pakam-Tebing- Siantar city. Four-hours trip, we start down the road towards the Parapat city and finally any posts WELCOME TO PARAPAT, It signs that we have arrived in this place.

As scheduled, immediately come to Ajibata, go up to Ferry ship and move to Samosir Island, a beautiful and famous island that wrapped by lake Toba's water. During the ship is running, I take a strategic position with the intent to look far and free to enjoy this beautiful Nature.

A view of clear water spreaded with a small wave, peaceful and quiet,  small boats comb the fringe of the lake, and the green trees that grow beside the lake, stone hills that hard,  and onethe most amazing is the green and high mountains reach the blue sky.

All beautiful and glamour 

I realize, "how beautiful this scene who God created, and glamour scene also God gives to my country.

Samosir Island and Lake Toba is one of the beautiful places in this country and indeed many other beautiful places. But many have been damaged, not maintained, even exploitation.

Don't let this happen! Save beauty of INDONESIA

DON'T GIVE UP UNCLE...

Feel give up often happened in our daily activity all day. Don'T know where and don't know when surely we have ever give up. When someone is not able to overcome a problem even if it has followed over the 8 point, or have followed many roads to Rome,the last word he said is give up.
It’s It is reasonable!! That is unreasonable when someone is already in the arena or have not even entered the arena has a direct do not feel capable.
Finally? There are losers, there is which is fail to pass examination, there is which is fail in interview and have not a job yet, even someone fail to create a blog because they have no self confidence or braveness to make post or to decorate their blog.
So… for all of you, which during the time feel easy surender, changeable immediately 180 degree right now become a difficult surender individu or even will never GIVE UP. Never give up before going through 8 point lead and go through many ways to Rome. But if you feel and have been gone through and you always get a fail , yes.. there is a reason to give up.

" Don’t give up Uncle".
You possible have heard this sentence. This first sentence is once heard by year 1965 on 30 September. A young man still have time to yell this sentence to his uncle which is that moment is struggling to face lethal.

Once again, Never give up before you reach many ways and methodes

SALE YOUR SELF WITH YOUTUBE

When I join for the first in youtube, I progressively often visit this online video. For the first this youtube purposed to share video, but now this channel rounding into a media especially entertainment, information, and advertising also. Almost people who online always visit this one, and this online video is the second rank after Google as the owner.
We can understand, why youtube always visited by us when sit in front of computer. In youtube we get many events and informations about many things, such as funny video,tragedy,life style,innovations,success story, bad story, earth quake, technology, solving problem to dissaled people and many more.
Conscious of very potential benefit at the opposite of this fact, many people using Youtube as a media promotion of their effort, themselves, and unique events in their life.
For all bloggers who promote their blogs or website, entrepreneur, salesman who sale products, and some one who promote himself to be an actor or model, and someone who share their hobby and their ideas, try using youtube video.
Make your video with good performance, send your unique experience, send about your ability and unique hobby or something that you find a new or strange one that you fine or in your life.
All important create an unique video and new matter that has no other people, although the duration 1 or 2 menits and it makes your video has many visitors.

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JOIN FREE, SHARING, AND GETTING PAID

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SMILE FOR ME = RAISING YOUR COMPANY

The title of this article is not song title which is “tophit” in 70 era, but reminding me when I was filling gas in one of the gas station in my town, over there shown three consumer rights, two of them I forgot, but the first sequence is that the consumer entitled to get SMILE. In one Bank also its Securitys and tellers altogether have full of smile when save my money. When looking around and buy something in Mall, there is again shown “ If our officer not smile, reporting to manager, and we will give you a Present”

What it means? Are consumer in this time have easy fulminate so that have to smile? Or are the officers cannot smile anymore along with threat of stoping job?
In reality, in this time along with growth of managemen systems, have been realized that hospitality is one factor which can draw all consumer. hospitality in this article means smile has brought new atmosphere and leave mark circumstantial at consumer. With sweet smile hence all consumer will feel to be paid attention, to be majored and esteemed so that make good cooperation between producer and consumer.
How Its result?? Company who treats this methode will be more survive and production also progressively mount, because all consumer or clients will return to come.
So, to all great friend which in this time is working, please give your smile to your partner, consumer, and all your clients, and to businessmen please make a briefing to your employees in order always smile to all clients and your consumer.
Isn’t the smile will give us healthy and beauty?

immediately...Smile for me, rigtht now

VALENTINE’S DAY AND BLOGGERS

Today is February, 14^TH, 2009, Valentine’s day is coming.

A special day which is being waited many people, although this day is still often a debate.

Where it is come from, meaning, and the purpose of valentine's day still generate pro and contra in various circle till in this time.

Quit of all above, definitive of Valentine's day have taken root since long time until now especially among the youth which celebrating it variously. Many moments which they experience of, There is a special moment, non special moment, or several feel nothing special. many of them feel full of happiness, full of sadness untill feel bad mood in this day

In line with journey of time, the celebration of " this day" has reach to several parents. What for this celebration for them? Remember the beautiful memories? Deeping and tighten the relation among family member? Dine with all family member? Yes.. these are several answers.

In the reality although this day often disputed, this " affection day " has touched and celebrated by all people. A fair matter and is not wrong, as long as addressed to develop; build and tighten to feel brotherhood, sense of respecting each other, sense of esteeming each other, and sense of loving each other in humanity.

How with us all Blogger?? keep in GOOD RELATION AND our EXISTING CORDIALITY will not be ever elapse.

Piter M. Silitonga,S.Si

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GLOBAL CRISIS AND GLOBAL WARMING

Global Warming and Global Crisis are two terms which make scared of the world society in this time. Not half the battle effect from both event.

Liquefaction of ice pole, earth temperature which progressively hot, irregular season is some effect of Global Warming. At the same time herewith, The Global Crisis also invade with many retired employees, unemployment threat, unstable economics systems, requirement progressively mount and many more...

Altogether bring misery..! We Don't know who is its perpetrator.

Quit of whom and what cause factor both of this event, What can we do now?

Wait and See ?? It's impossible. Demonstrate ?? No Result. Not give a dam ?? Might possibly.

Doing activities like usual and read news?? Reasonable

Praying and Working?? According to me, this is the best way.

Praying , in order God give us spirit , patience, hope and health. Thereby we able to enjoy all result of sweat and able to enjoy all the beautiful earth of His creation.

Working, so that we can eat and drink and fulfill requirement of life.

But don’t forget !! all our activities also must with Efficiency.

Thrift in all sector will influence and minimize the effect both of event above.

Usage of energy which in moderation, usage of ozone friendly materials and recycleable materials , and also love and use cheap and quality domestic product are several methods to make this way.

Once again, Praying, working, and efficiency.

Best Regards

Piter Silitonga